Hey Will! Good to hear from you...please send my best to J, Erica is obviously not worthy of him and belongs with the trash she is keeping....there is much better out there for a brave, fighting, Unites States soldier!!! He will have them crawling at his feet when he gets home...before he knows it, he'll be saying 'Erica who?'!!!!!

Please come home safe and sound soon, so we can crawl all over your feet too!! :-)

Much love and respect....

Hey Will,
I am so glad you brought up this topic. Being a former Navy wife (yes, former, but he did the running around) I have seen this so many times on deployments. Being with a member of the military is a tough job, it's not for everyone. Most people walk into military life thinking it will be fun and adventure. The reality is, you spend a great deal of time alone supporting your partner. Even the strongest of people find it hard to deal with at times. When I said my vows, I knew I was marrying the Navy as well. I went from one duty station to another without complaint. He was the one who decided (see mid-life crisis) that he wanted someone else (see trailer park trash). Divorce is tough no matter who you are, but the real victims are the children. I am now a single working mother/student (graduating in December). The one thing that kept me sane through that whole "dark time" was knowing that "what ever goes around comes around". I am very happy with my life now and it's not bad being single again. Tell Spc J that he will get over this, he deserves better and that bitch will get hers. Just for drill (see shits and giggles), give us her email anyway! Take care Will, you're in our thoughts.

I have to agree with Kathy here. I am too a former Navy wife whose spouse ran around on her. Looking back it's been a true blessing for me though. (see happy/content life) though he still does not get why he is unhappy going from one trash to another.
Anyway, Tell Spc J we are rootin' for him and though he was handed a dirty deed he can wash iit away and find someone worthy of him.
Keep the emails coming Will, stay safe and know you and your men are in our thoughts and prayers

Ah, this topic makes me mad (see People Suck). There's no excuse. Thanks for venting for the rest of us, Will.

Hi Will...

If you would please relay these poems I wrote to J. I may never have had the deal of dating someone in the military, but I know what it's like to be lied to, heartbroken, and made to feel a fool.

IT ALL GOES AROUND

Alone in the world of shattered dreams,
disjointed theories, and backward streams...
Reality will contradict
the essence of relationships.
Heights so lofty; scared to fall...
but knowing supercedes the call.
Amazing, the ferocity
of hurtful, lost integrity.
Glass-front features crack and fall
when backed up tight, against the wall.
But soon, someday, all falls apart
when the last remains of your heart
escape your soul and lose their way;
it seems your soul has gone astray.

Then a simple act of good or love
restores your soul, just enough.

HEADGAMES

Headgames -
You Play them,
Game them;
Do your Deed.
Headgames
So Many Times you do it the Same,
but one day you, too, will be gamed.

Headgames -
You Hurt them,
Dessert them;
Leave them in Tears of Need.
Headgames
Slithering Snake with Deceitful Charm,
one day you'll get the Shot in the arm.

Headgames -
You Lie,
Deny,
Then bid your Adieu.
Headgames
The universe will make you Pay,
when all your Charming Crimes it weighs.

Headgames -
You Charm,
Do Harm;
They'll catch up with you.
Headgames
Your headgames will catch up with you,
and you'll Regret the day they do.

Headgames -
You Cheat,
Complete;
You lie to two.
Headgames
Your Lies will blow up in your face,
And destroy your little Hampster Race.

Headgames -
You make them Cry,
You say Goodbye;
Your Preying will come back to you.
Heagames
Not every time you will "get away",
Oh, the universe will make you pay.

Headgames -
You say you Love,
And Swear to Above;
You make them love you, Snake.
Headgames
Your Two-Faced Lies, your Worthless Words,
Will karma's wrath incure.

Headgames

TEARS

I come
from deep within your soul
I come
with tidings again
I'm not the joy
you've know before
I'm not relief
upon your features
but I'm here
again
with you.

I come
to taunt you once again
I come
with furrowed confusion
I am that crease
upon your brow
and I am here
again
with you.

I come
to play upon your heart
I come
to sing my song
I am that melody
around quivering lips
and I am here
again
with you.

I come
with bitter flames that sear
I come
with consuming intentions
I am the inferno
incinerating you
and I am here
again
with you.

Is any of this helping J? I just want to let him know that even when that lying, cheating person is right near you, it still hurts like hell. Hell, that wench should have kissed J's 'wound' when he got home, NOT kicked him in it! That tramp!

Hell...least she could have done if she wanted to sleep with his friend, is to wait til he got home and suggest they have a threesome (See kinky, but you never know!)for cripes sake! Seriously though...Dear John lettes suck and are the absolute wrong thing to do for all the reasons you said. I agree with you and I don't even have experience with military romance!

May Ms Cheating Erica get a permanent yeast infection!!!

I'd like to enclose a poem or two I wrote about the USA if you can bear with me, please, for those who have not visited my website @ http//myhomeismyheart.homestead.com/Welcome.html

GOD BLESS THIS COUNTRY

American children learn American Pride
They learn to stand firm, not run and hide.
Our buildings were crumbled, our skyline changed-
but We won’t crumble, so hang on for the ride!
We’re more than our power, more than our money.
American People - American Pride.
Oh, God bless the fallen of the USA.

You may hurt our hearts
but you won’t break our back-
you took on the wrong country
by putting US under attack!
Old Glory will keep flying,
American Pride we don’t lack.
Oh, God bless the heroes of the USA.

Our Lady Liberty’s torch
held high and lighting the way-
our troops move out to visit you
with a debt to repay.
The Eagle has risen
called the US of A.
Oh, God, bless this country - the USA.

You won’t be smiling when our fighters
find you in your small hole.
Like a rodent in a burrow,
but devoid of a soul.
It all goes around,
and then it all goes.
Oh, God bless the leaders of the USA

America awoke just like any other day,
people getting started and going their own way.
So many ended up heroes
keeping evil at bay -
Children left with only a memory
of a parent at play.
Oh, God bless the children of the USA.

Our Lady Liberty’s torch
held high and lighting the way -
our troops move out to visit you
with a debt to repay.
The Eagle has risen
called the US of A.
Oh, God, bless this country - the USA.

As we watched on the news
on that September morn,
with misted eyes full of shock;
hearts aching and forlorn.
One shocking scene, then two holes...
Then another sad report-
our symbols are assaulted
when terrorists consort.
Oh, God bless ALL countries -
not just the USA

OUR AMERICAN NATION

Our nation is not perfect
She has alot of flaws...
but if a choice is given,
I'd always choose Her laws.

Many men have perished
defending Her from strife...
They, like me, believe in Her
protecting Her with their life.

These colors do not run,
though fade and fray they may...
but true Americans are loyal
and do not back away.

American Pride is faithful
standing for our rights,
for hope and peaceful living
throughout the darkened nights.

Hand in hand, arm in arm,
America stands proud.
A melting pot of peoples
singing strong and loud.

The majority of people
who inhabit this great land,
strongly believe in right and wrong
and wrong does not withstand.

So kill our loved ones, strike our land
resolve builds strong convictions;
that's when we're our best, as one
standing together without restrictions.

God Bless America...
you cannot bring Us to Our knees!
We only bow our heads to Heaven;
with Him, we're strong, indeed!

God Bless, Will, and to your men as well. Send them my thoughts and prayers please. Congrats to the new fathers too!

Judi

So sorry to hear of J's misfortune. I have struggled with the dear john letter... as my b/friend was deploying in January (day before my bday), I found out that he is not actually divorced. But, I did not feel bailing out while he is away was the right thing to do, so i still email, send snail mail and packages as often as I can. I will see if things get resolved, which I know can not while he is out in the sandbox, I will make that decision when the timing is better.

What a completely crappy thing to do to a guy. ((((J)))). I would love to see a response from her.

Great article, as always.

Hi Will,

What that horrible, scummy woman did to Spc J was inexcusable. Especially when he's in such a tough, miserable place thousands of miles from home. He and the rest of you guys are in our thoughts and prayers. When I was active duty Navy, I was good friends with a guy who was stationed on a ship, and went on a 6-month cruise. He came back to find his wife 3 months pregnant. He actually forgave her, and said he'd raise the kid like it was his own, but she up and left anyway. Spc J will need his friends at a time like this. I'm sure there are many, many ladies that would stand in line to go out with him when he comes back home. That horrible, scummy woman will be forgotten.

Congratulations to the new fathers. You guys stay cool. Judi, thanks for the poems. They are wonderful. You guys hang in there, and stay safe. Many people have all of you in their thoughts and prayers.

I feel REALLY bad for the guy! I feel awful that he had to experience this while on the other side of the world. He is definitely too good for her. Tell him that things will get better, and not to worry though , what she did will come back to haunt her eventually. They always do.

I feel bad for J. It's a good thing you guys are there for him and help him cheer up. I've never dated someone in the military but I wouldnt of sent him a letter like that. Thats what people do when they cant go face to face and tell someone its over. I'm sure the slut will get whats coming to her one day. I'm also sure someone whos worthy of him will come around someday.

Come home safe soon.

Jennifer

Will, Spc. J is very fortunate to have someone like you to turn to in his time of need. Your love and compassion for your troops will give them the strength and courage to cope until they return home to their families. Please let him know that we are all behind him and praying that he will be able to reach out to you and his friends in the troop to help him through this difficult time. God be with you all. Jo

Tell J we are all pulling for him and for all of you out there! You have to share your story too one of these days... I can't believe a girl was crazy enough to break up with you, we all know you are the perfect guy! ;) Stay safe & God bless!

Oh dear Will, if it weren't for you, I'm sure Spc. J would've had it much harder. You're a great guy and a good friend. I myself have encountered ex's and I know I've mumbled "sluttttttt" under my breath one too many times. *adjusts halo* I'm glad to hear life is generally ok over there, hurry home!

Emarie

First, many congratulations to the new dads! I'm sure we're all pulling for them to get home soon and spend some time with their new babies!
Mailing someone a letter to end a relationship is something you stop doing by the time you reach high school. It shows a lack of compassion, nerve, maturity... and so many other things. Unfortunately, as you stated, I'm sure it happens a lot in your line of work... I'm sure that someday 'J' will find a woman with enough backbone to stand by him through it all... :)

It sounds like someone should send you a pool in one of your packages! Too bad they can't send a blender, crushed ice and beverages...
Take care over there.

As a former victim of Dear John letter, my sympathy to your SPC J. However, at least he will not be wasting valuable time and emotion on Ms. Erica when he returns. I have known several other soldiers (male and female) who have returned home from a deployment only to have the rug pulled from beneath them when their Beloved is passing out their love to others. Encourage the guy to rant and rave and realize he deserves better.
Congrats to the new dads (and the new moms back at home). Hopefully their separation will not be too much longer. (You should probably encourage those guys to make sure their spouses are getting the full Champus coverage, by the way, as reservists sometimes don't take advantage of all their benefits).

Hope you get a return date locked in soon.

Good to hear from you! It's nice to know that you are doing ok. I hope that all of you will return us very soon!

J can certainly find better than the so called slut. Kicking yourself only makes it harder.

Congrats to the new dads and their families back home.

Stay in the shade Will...

TOO FUNNY! No, not what happened to Spc. J but the support shown here for a guy we only know as the "guy who got nailed".
Hang in there J!! Will - sing him the song from the Wedding Singer. That always cheers me up when I think of my bastard ex.
Keep cool if you can (we are having our typical NE summer here, 100 degrees and 100% humidity. Gotta love it!).
More news on its way soon. Preview: $221 bar tab for Little Budy's birthday for 8 of us.

Shell

hi will,
it great hearing from you, i look forward to your words of wisdom.
i hope J is getting, iam sure he is feeling bad, i feel for him. i hope he can get that whore out of his mind quickly. i feel in my heart she will get hers, j hang in there.

hope to here from you soon.

p.s the heat will for sure not be of one of my complaints

Now you know why so professional soldiers are, indeed, married to the military. It's really the only solid, sure thing in their lives. Now you know why some people are 'distant' when they leave the military. The only thing they can trust for certain is the insanity of the command structure in the military.They don't know if there loved ones will be faithful or even alive when they get back. I wish him luck and I hope he gets back at her in the most effective ways possible. See if he can rip her heart out like she did his! A few suggestions can be had in books written by George Hayduke( see REVENGE)Good luck and De Opreeso Liber

Hey Will

Sounds like you've been a good friend to J - he will need that more than anything right now.

I agree with all of the above and would like to add that people like Erica sadly seem to be in a forever pursuit of happiness without regard to others but wind up coming up empty handed every time! She obviously never took the time to do the hard stuff in life (character building), learned the painful lessons (somehow remember those better than when somebody tells you 'something for your own good') and made choices while keeping in mind the feelings of others. How very sad for her (no sympathy though - she CHOSE that path)- she has chosen a shallow version of life and will find happiness always just out of reach.

The beauty of life is that if you have decent morals and follow them, see and appreciate the continuous wonders of life in spite of the ugly parts and treat others as you want to be treated (as corny as that sounds), life reciprocates all of that back to you (though you have to handle the details!). It is just that simple. Guess this is a long-winded version of "what goes around, comes around" and "life gives back what you put into it."

J is going through a dark time right now, but will be a stronger, better man for it (easy for me to say, I know, but have been there in one form or another) and will be able to spot 'false' people a little easier next time, instead surrounding himself with true friends and lover(s).

hmmmm!
Are you saying you're single?
(knowing that I'll never get an answer I had to ask nontheless)

Hang in there my soldier friend and watch your words Gods Guardian Angels are watching over you.

So, are you single? yes:) no:(

God's Guardian Angels must be tired too as we all pray that God's sends them to watch over all
Have a Good Evening my friend.

A.

What a hag.

Well the only thing I can say to {{ J }} is a woman like that is not worth the time of day. It's better to know what kind of person she is now, than waste any more time on her. Their are lots of NICE girls out their. So just keep your heads down and get home soon! Hey at least you guys get to play with water and cool off a little. I feel sorry for the guys that have to sit in it all day also. You have a little advantage if you think about it. I'm sure some time you get wet by accident. (See water hose spray the wrong way)
Take care!!

not to worry j, there are tons of cool single women out there!!!!
chin up!
thanks for the sanity will.
oceana

Okay, so you have a bunch of chicks e-mailing you... I'll make it short.

My fiance is currently in Iraq with the 3rd ID, on a rooftop in Baghdad the last time I spoke with him. Thankfully, the word is they're all coming home within the next two months... I'd like to get married before I go into a nursing home.

Your guys are in my thoughts and prayers... your turn to be home will come soon.

I just wanted to say thanks for these writings... No news is good news in the Army as I'm learning (as tough as the lesson may be), but reading your messages--I only discovered them this evening and have read them all...does that make me a geek?--has made me feel closer to Chris. You guys are truly heroes... anyone who disputes that can kiss my ass (okay, so normally I wouldn't have said ass, but you said worse in yours..sheesh!).

Anyway, I said this would be short and it's already longer than short... I'll end this by saying God bless and take care. Looking forward to reading more.

Becca

P.S. To make a long short message longer:
Tell Spc J that no woman is worth losing his head over (yes, this coming from a female... I learned this the hard way with males). Keep up the good work, soldiers!

Hey Will,

I always look so forward to reading your letters, but this one especially hit home with me.

I met the man of my dreams back in Jan. and he deployed on April 6. I wrote him every day for 10 weeks faithfully and then on June 16, I got the "Dear Kris" letter. He was going back to his old girlfriend because they had children together.

I totally respect him for wanting to do the right thing, but I know what you're saying. Would it have hurt him too much to wait until he came home to tell me so I wouldn't have to try to deal with all these feelings? I loved him so much and still do.

I read what's going on over there everyday and look for any scrap of info on the 4th ID, praying that nothing happens to him. I cringe inside everytime I hear of one of ours getting shot or killed.

The pain was almost more than I could bear, so tell Spc. J. that I'm right there with him and understand, but life does go on. There's a good woman out there for him. One that will be faithful to him alone.

Love all you guys and pray for your safe return. You are all my heros. Hurry home...and keep writing.

Love, Kris

Poor Spc J... Erica was completely out of line. It is so hard for all of you to be away from family and friends. You don't deserve a Dear John letter to boot!!! Erica was wrong by not walking away from the start. If she loved Spc J an ounce she would have walked away and at least then she would not have been doing something so evil. As for the room mate... he is just as much to blame and should be a man about the suituation. He should not have let this event occur!! He obviously has no balls and is not a mature individual.

Well, on a higher note... Congrats to the new dads! Being a mother of a 14 month old, I know the joy of a child. I pray that these men are able to come home soon to see their new angels. God bless them and their families.

Well as an Army wife who's hubby just came home from the sandbox a week ago. I found him tan, trimmed and happy to be back in my arms. Boy did she screw up. He will be showered with free drinks, free meals and as much free love as he can take as soon as he walks into town. Thats just wrong but Karma baby will get her and she'll get her nail in the end too.
You guys hang in there and come home safe SOON will ya? Any time you're in California the drinks, meals and I am sure we can rustle up some free love will be on us.
Tammy

J,

it happened to me in Desert Storm.

one thing i can tell you is this, the experience will allow to raise your standards and enable you to spot a better woman than the one who made the mistake of leaving you.

Semper Fi and thank you guys for being there!

hello!
I completely agree about the dear John letters to many of my buddy's have gotten those...and personally i want to slap the crap out of the women who do somethign liek that.....i've bitched a few of them out..yes unlady like i know but nobody messes w/ my buddy's like that...
Anyways this may be the wrong place to post this but i have a question
there use to be a way to send letters to "any soldier"
most of my buddy's and i write since they ahve been deployed and i write them 3-4 times a week..i love to write can't help it and i was wondering how can you do the any soldier thing...or hell does anyone know someone who needs a pen pal???
I typically e-mail or snail mail either way!
let me know my e-mails above
take care
and to all our tropps
Thank you mroe than words can say and please knowe many of us are so damn proud of all of you!
take care
Denise

hey i think they should pass a law making it illegal for anyone to get a devorice while anyone in the military is over seas or other wise engaged in a war conflict or training or other wise. sorry about some military wifes and there sad tail of wow. but i know from nam many a good men got shoot because of dear job letters. i have abosulutly no sympathy for any miltary wife who thinks its ok during such times to write a dear john letter., heck get real where in the heck in a war are our guys going to find time let alone someone to fool around with someone seriously needs to get real here period. dear john letters are about the most self centered thing i have ever heard of and should be made illegal during war times. there is a place and time for such things i dont give a hoot what the poor me excuse is any one has for it . this is not the time or place for such self centered oh i can do it now that there to far away to do anything about it thoughts or letters. grrrrrrrrrrr. when they say support our troops they meant it in every way possible including using some common sence. which means keeping your mouth shut about feeling sorry for yourself until the time is right which to me is never. its not like none of us have suffered back home. sleepless nights and the works. it comes with the pride in being a family member of a military personal. bowi out and shame on you as well as live with the gult if your person gets harmed or captured or killed in action cause you wil never know the rest of your life if your dear john letter was a direct cause of any of it. grrrrrrrrrrr. like i said many a guy in nam took a bullet over a dear john letter something to seriously think about. with that i am out of here i am so disgusted with this person i cant even spit nails grrrrrrrrrr.

Hello Will,
it would us a firend for forget the badly.....Bè,all world is country so we say in Italy,luck that we say also the world is little.We are convince that for everyone of us there is someone to love,we are single.This phrase is a song dedicate at all:
The one that I wanted,always it isn't!only a little of love that become dust,if it was magic throwed you instead I have the hand a letter,two roses ane a song still to write....
Ps:To Chris.You live in the Wisconsin?We have met a boy of name Chris of Wisconsin.
Greeting of the Italy all boys and girls that write.Hello.Ciao Will by two nice girls Milena and Adriana

Dear Friends Family and Fans of Will

I just wanted to take a moment to thank all of you for your support of the US troops over here. I also wanted to thank you all for the support and advice you all have given me through my misfortunes over here. Im glad Will can bring a little humor to your lives through my bad luck. Im very glad to have leaders and friends like Will and other soldiers like him, i feel the Erica situation could have been 100 times worse if i didnt have theses guys over here with me. I truly feel that this is not 'An Army of One' its a team and a family, and im just glad to have them.

Thanks again for all you guys have done

Spc J

that bitch!!

Hi, Will
I was really upset about what happened to J. He should know that not all women are so selfish and bitches. I have my boyfriend in Iraq and everyday that passes just makes me realize that he is the love of my life and worth waiting for. Just let J know that this will just enable him to find the good woman that is truly meant for him.

As for Erica her day will come believe me.

As for all you guys please be safe and come home very soon.

Hey Will,
My heart breaks to hear that story. I hope "J" is doing well. But I know he is not. I recieved something of the same sort about a year ago. It was more along the lines of a voicemail. I found that he had been living two seperate lives. I still have not gotten over it b/c there was no closuer. When it comes to people like Erica they will get what they deserve and we get to sit made and watch as they suffer what they brought upon themselves. Karma is really a bitch! You and I both know it never really goes away but the pain does subside. I can't wait hear of your homecoming. I am in Texas but to have all of you guys home will be such a blessing.
Lots of Hugs, Renae
Houston, TX

Ah, it's the same story over and over... boy sees girl... boy chases girl... boy loves girl... girl kinda likes him... girl says stuff she doesn't mean... girl is a bitch. Why can't it all be straight forward? Why is honesty such an issue with some people? I'll tell ya why, cuz they are COWARDS. Something that J. is not. He set aside his own personal safety like so many others. If she cannot value that, then she is simply worthless. The cruelness of it all is that he is helpless to do much about it, like you said. He can't go talk to her or anything. All he can do is try and forget about it for now. We all know the pain unfortunately. I sympathize. Keep the awesome view coming!

I remain...
Cat

Spec J - hang in there. Know that somewhere back home is a woman who will make that "hole" seem like a dim memory fading into the cobwebs of your mind.

She's here, waiting. And someday, you'll find her.

Meantime, keep your head down, soldier!

MG

(I found you via Lt. Smash.)

Come home soon, come home safe.

We're proud of you all and all are in our prayers.

Tell "J" she's not worth his grief.

If you're ever in Central Texas, let us be your host.

Best regards

Hey Will and J:

Glad to hear you're making plans to plan to meet to plan to pack .... Sounds like one of my days at work.

J - listen to a much older woman - one day five years from now you will run into the slut-(see BIAACH) Erica - you'll look her over and start singing Garth Brook's song - Thank God for Unanswered Prayers. Because you will realize that she did you a BIG FAVOR (see huge) by doing this now and not later - like after you married her and had a child or two. Now that sucks! She's definitely NOT WORTHY of you.

Will - there are women lining up to be your true blue! And that's HOOAH!

Take care!!

Ira

During WWII "Dear John's" were restricted somehow. Don't recall how. Military censors?

Anyway, as someone who also just found this blog I want to encourage J to go through the pain and grief he needs to. Let it all out. Don't hold back.

I can *promise* J there are plenty of single, patriotic women in the US who will find him an instant turn on, just because of what he's done for our country.

I guarantee he'll have his pick of beauties when he arrives home. It's her loss, not his.

Probably these sound like empty, meaningless words to J right now. I'd be willing to bet, that in a year or less he'll be glad because it will save him from having to ditch *her* because he's found someone else.

Can't wait to read that book you keep talking about. Maybe they'll make a movie and you'll become famous?

Wishing all the troops success and God's protection ..

Christa

Hey Will............I just wanted to first say that I really enjoy reading your articles. It sort of puts a lighter touch to this whole war issue. I can't stop reading about all of the things that happen over there. My good friend was just deployed to Pakistan on 15 July (my b-day) and I worry a lot but, as I have been for all of the rest of you thousands of miles away, I just pray that she will return safely. Hopefully ya'll will be coming home soon!!!

As for the deal with poor J...........Erica is a pathetic excuse for a woman and she is the kind of person that gives the good women a bad rap. She could have waited until he got home to tell him. It is bad enough that he has to be so far away from his family and friends then that bitch(sorry can't help it) has to rip his heart out from many miles away. I truly feel sorry for her because she has probably trashed the best man she will ever have. What goes around comes around and she has hers coming. I just hope that he will make it ok until he gets back home where there will undoubtedly be all kinds of good women waiting to win his heart.

Ok..........ya'll try to hang in there and be safe until you get to head back home. And tell J that Erica isn't worth the time and energy it takes him to fret over her childish antics . He'll win in the end.:-)

God Bless all of you..........you are all my heroes!!!!!

Dana

Subject: Dear John

A soldier stationed in Iraq recently received a "Dear John" letter from his girlfriend back home. It read as follows:

Dear Ricky, I can no longer continue our relationship. The distance between us is just too great. I must admit that I have cheated on you twice, since you've been gone, and it's not fair to either of us. I'm sorry. Please return the picture of me that I sent to you.

Love, Becky

The Marine, with hurt feelings, asked his fellow Marines for any snapshots they could spare of their girlfriends, sisters, ex-girlfriends, aunts, cousins etc. In addition to the picture of Becky, Ricky included all the other pictures of the pretty gals he had collected from his buddies. There were 57 photos in that envelope....along with this note:

Dear Becky,

I'm so sorry, but I can't quite remember who you are. Please take your picture from the pile, and send the rest back to me.

Take Care, Ricky

Doesn't get any better than that............................

Hello Will,
We want add our important thougth.We are learned that in the suffering of the love finished,the friends are been a big help.Dear J,we dedicate to you and all an important meaning of the friendship.
Your friend
is your need satiated.
He is the field that you sow with love
and that thanking reap.
He is your table and your residence
because,starving,you take refuge him
and look for your peace.
If friend confide you his thought
don't your thought hide.
When he don't speak
your heart don't stop of listen him,
because in the friendship
every thought,wish,hope
rise in the silence and share in joy.
If you separate from friend
one another don't pain,because his lack
light you on that more love him
and don't be in the friendship other purpose
that dig in the spirite each other.
Share each other the joys
smile in the sweetness,
because in the dew of the little things
the heart discover your morning and comfort each other.

Dedicate all
Adriana,Milena

Morning Will and company:
Though I am a civilian, (apparently, Uncle Sam wasn't going to build a special plane for me to fit in) my family has held important positions in the military, just like you guys.
Hey, good subject. The best subjects are the one at hand ;)
I broke up with my gf of 7 years yesterday. Guess what? I'm back to playing golf again. Going from hole to hole?
We all feel for Spc.J, cause we all been there. Tell em, we all are dealt cards we don't like. It's how we play those cards out that shows the charcater within.
Spc.J could send a letter back to her, letting her know that you are pulling strings with the brass to have someone come out to her and do a full-freakin audit on her, just to have a little satisfaction knowing she gets to sweat it out a little for awhile or like the bullshit you guys put up with in the sandbox, piss on it and get over it. Women are a dime a dozen, you will always find one when you are not looking for em.
Okay, got to run. Do the job right guys and we'll keep the women loose and the beer cold for your return.

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Yeah, it's an old post. I know it sucks when you lose a girlfriend. Personally, I've never had to deal with it. It also sucks if she's screwing your best friend. It sucks bigtime. However, you have to realize that, though you might love someone, they might not love you back, or there just isn't enough time to bond. Personally, even though I'm still a sophomore in High School, I've had too many friends slip out from under me as seniors and never gotten their contact info. I kinda know how it feels to lose someone. That's it. They're gone forever. Best thing to do is sit up, and tell yourself you're gonna move on, and do it. Don't drink anything but gatorade or water, as anything else will put you out for the night. If you need to, think about it for a long time. The important thing is to remember the good times, and forget the bad. Trust me, if they leave you because you're away, then you don't want them. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder," and it didn't seem to happen this time around. You'll find someone where it'll work. Here's a small quote for you. It's always helped me.

"So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All you have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to you..."
-Gandalf the Grey

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